6 creative ways to encourage youth to read.

In an age when many teens are glued to cell phones to text and surf the web, oftentimes book reading is not a top priority. While I agree that STEM Education is extremely important, I am also concerned that oral and written communication skills are still undervalued in society. Reading has a host of benefits that impact scholastic success and overall achievement in all disciplines. Moreover, individuals who embrace reading typically develop better writing skills.

When I attended private school, one tough teacher required the class to discuss assigned literature during summers, at her home. She called it a 'pool party.'  I do not know about you, but other than this experience, I was never required to stuff a book in my beach or pool bag. Really, she was helping to prepare our minds for the next round of her tough standards. It was more enjoyable to dish about English Literature under the sun, rather than in a confined room. I will stop my story at that point in time as I reflect on the goal of this post.

1. Make reading fun. Ruling the helm like a parental tyrant can have the opposite effect. So, what can parents, mentors, friends or relatives do to encourage youth to like reading? Pay attention to what holds a child's or teen's interest and start there. There are books written about almost everything, so be careful of forcing him or her to only read what is required, or what you would prefer. Also note teen book lines, and new authors who update familiar social issues with a modern approach. Shelia Lipsey's 'House of Cars' (click here) is one such example. Even well known authors like Omar Tyree are expanding their offerings to include fun, digital teen books like The Sneaker King. Ebooknationinc.com is a growing platform that is worth bookmarking for readers of all ages.

Keep a list of recommendations or new book releases to share with youth. Sign up for newsletters, or follow authors and publishers on social media, to help facilitate your search. Allowing a teen to pick a book at a bookstore, or giving a surprise gift, may inspire more discipline to finish one. When homework time comes, perhaps the habit of completion becomes more relatable. Hopefully.

2. Stop worrying about if a book is age appropriate, in terms of it being labeled as a book written for teens. I do not believe teens should read sexually explicit material, but I do believe that adults should not always tell them what is too advanced to try to read. Just like adults, teens have different tastes. Some are not bookworms, but others are. My father used to allow me read books in his den when I wanted to read something out of the box. Many books there were inclusive of studies and other books that he bought while attending rigorous graduate programs. I kept asking questions about a particular subject, so he drove quite a distance to John Hopkins to find another book about it. In time, college campuses became familiar to me, although I was about thirteen. I ended up testing far above my grade level in reading comprehension. The genesis of my love of books as a teen was my dad allowing me to experience adult books, while helping me to comprehend what I couldn't, whenever I felt stuck.

3. Have you heard of Little Free Libraries? If not, please watch the video that can be found here: http://m.startribune.com/?id=231619501. Designing a neighborhood lending library together could be extremely fun for youth or children who like art. Many towns and neighborhoods are beginning to encourage lending and taking books from Little Free Libraries. Books can be separated for adults, children and youth, or you can run your project the way that you prefer. Find ideas via www.littlefreelibrary.org.

4. Lead by example. Even if your child, or a young person that you know, is beyond story time, why not turn reading into a joint activity? It does not matter who prefers a Kindle, newspaper or physical book; read at the same time. Adults often feel too busy to read more than work documents on a computer screen. However, setting aside 20 minutes a few times a week could mean sacrificing an episode of your favorite TV show, but I feel supporting a child is worth it.

5. Do not use reading a book or writing as a form of punishment. This is a matter of opinion, but I feel that doing so can have the opposite effect. It can teach an impressionable, young person to hate books and writing, before even picking up a book or a pencil at home. A modified approach could be having to earn back a privilege, or doing an extra household chore, as a form of punishment. And if writing or books are involved, perhaps giving an incentive for a job well done would be better than making these activities seem like a horrible task.

6. Remember to let your young person mingle with other readers his or her age, too. Remember my opening remarks about my teachers, 'pool party?' My classmates and I probably were not thrilled about her untimely invitation, but we all were in the same boat. Whether it is a book club for kids, attending a special program at a community center or festival, or turning a Little Free Library building task into a community service project, facilitate peer exploration. The younger generation often needs reminding that doing the right thing will not lead to the demise of their social reputation. I believe that one way to improve this challenge is to help youth find an accepting circle...wherever that may be.

Education begins at home. These tips are mere suggestions that I offer to spark your own solution-based thinking to encourage youth to read.

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Author interview & news! Gidney's 'Bereft' is being considered for an NAACP Image Award in the Teen Lit category.

It is my pleasure to post an intriguing read penned by a fellow DC based novelist, Craig Laurance Gidney. This evening's virtual dinner chat with an author is the perfect way to finish Cyber Monday. Please read about Gidney's publishing journey. Bereft was released on March 5, 2013. 

What is his favorite quote? “Watch it, sucka.” --Aunt Esther, Sanford & Son

Enjoy!

Andrea: What is the significance of the title, 'Bereft?'

Craig: The title comes from a William Blake poem called “The Little Black Boy.” The ending lines of the poem are, “White as an angel is the English child/But I am black, as if be’reaved of light.” The novel deals with issues of self-loathing, and angel imagery is woven throughout the text.

Andrea: Can you share a little about the book?

Craig: The book is about Rafael Fannen, a 14 year old boy who gets a scholarship to an exclusive Catholic school. In addition to being one of the few black students at the school, he is also gay, but unable to accept that about himself. Rafe struggles with racism, bullying and homophobia. He also has problems at home as well. “Bereft” is a novel about how Rafe finds a way to survive.

Andrea: Where did the idea for the plot come from, and did you ever worry about how readers would interpret any aspect of the story?

Craig: The idea of the story came from my life. I went to an exclusive prep school where I was one of the few African American students, and I was miserable. While there is an autobiographical aspect to the book, it is heavily fictionalized.

Andrea: Please tell us about some of your previous writing awards, and your most recent nomination.

Craig: I received the Susan C. Petrey scholarship to attend the Clarion West Writing Workshop in 1996. My fantasy story “A Bird of Ice” was long-listed for the 2008 Gaylactic Spectrum Awards, and my debut collection, Sea, Swallow Me & Other Stories was a finalist for the 2009 Lambda Literary Award. I recently learned that Bereft was accepted for judging in the NAACP Image Awards in the Teen Lit category.

Andrea: Who is your target audience?

Craig: The target audience is black youth. I insisted that my publisher have a young black man’s face on the cover; so many book covers are ‘white-washed,’ and black people are almost always absent from YA book covers. However, the book is for everyone. Anyone who’s been treated like an outcast can identify with Rafe.

Andrea: Have you found DC to be an 'author-friendly' city?

Craig: Not really! DC is very much a company town, and the creative profession doesn’t rank high on people’s radars. That being said, there are a lot of creative folks (writers, actors, artists, musicians) in the area. But they are underground, in a way.

Andrea: What is one thing that surprised you about the publishing industry, and how did you navigate through it?

Craig: How much work you have to do to promote your work, even if you are published by the Big Six. These days, you have to be your own Publicity Agent, and it’s a completely different skill set than writing. I’m introspective and hermetic; but in order to promote your book, you have to be outgoing and more “on” than I’m used to.

Andrea: Please share your book's purchase link(s), website and social media information.

Craig: You can purchase the book at any online retailer (e.g. Powells, Amazon, Barnes & Noble). It is also on the Kindle and the Nook. My website is craiglaurancegidney.com and my Twitter handle is ethereallad. Thanks to Andrea for the opportunity to share this information to her audience.

I appreciate Craig's visit, and yours, too! Click this Amazon link to read the synopsis of Bereft, or to make a purchase. I am rooting for him to win the NAACP  Image Award in the Teen Lit category. 

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Omar Tyree sends a message about Ebook Nation. Please watch this crowd funding video clip.

I can relate to the cost associated with publishing books. I believe in this campaign, especially because it will help expand opportunities for other authors, too. Omar Tyree is one of my favorite writers. If we value books, it would be wonderful if the writing community could benefit from more crowd funding support.

http://www.indiegogo.com/projects/the-ebook-nation-the-new-matrix

Scientist & author Tallis Piaget intertwines messages for the African-American community, in his novel, 'Black Boogiemen.'

By day, Tallis Piaget works as an analytical protein biochemist. Additionally, the St. Louis based scientist authored 'Black Boogiemen,' which was released in 2011. His book addresses problems in the African-American community. I welcome Tallis to The Nook today.



Andrea: What is 'Black Boogiemen' about? What is the significance of the title?

Tallis: The book is about a group of men who form a covert group called the "Black Boogiemen". By attacking the economic structure, revamping the educational system, and removing the drug dealers/gang bangers, these "Black Boogiemen" convert the inner cities of American into Utopian Societies.

The title refers to the idea of the boogieman being ever present. Whether he is behind the bushes, under your bed, or inside of your closet, he is always watching. So everyone must be on there best behavior or the Black Boogiemen will come and get you.


Andrea: Is your book fictional? Who is your target audience?

Yes my book is fictional. Though I've received rave reviews from all walks of life, I guess my target audience is anyone that desires to read a book in which black America repairs their own social issues without begging for help from the government.


Andrea: How is the topic, sagging pants, tied into your book, 'Black Boogiemen?'

Tallis: One aspect of repairing a damaged neighborhood is instilling pride in the youth. Sagging pants represents a serious lack of pride. We must teach our boys that their appearance can help damage a neighborhood.  Sagging pants are also a gangsters uniform, so if a citizen wants to remove the gangsters from their neighborhood, they must eradicate all vestiges of the gangster's persona including the attire.  


Andrea: Have young readers shared feelings about sagging pants? If so, what have they shared?

Tallis: The view changes. Before reading my book the youth feel sagging pants is merely a fashion statement, and it doesn't hurt anyone. After reading my book, they all understand that showing their backsides in public is an embarrassment to themselves and their families. Most of my young readers not only changed their views, they also changed their dressing style. They now wear the pants around the waist as they are meant to be worn.

Andrea: Campaigns to pull pants up are being launched in various cities and towns. Do you feel that it's an effective solution to reach those who let their pants sag, or do you offer additional suggestions?

Tallis: The current campaigns are futile. They are attempting to force kids to pull their pants up without providing a reason. This will never work. Kids must be informed as to why their pants should be worn properly, otherwise they will rebel all other abrasive approaches.


Andrea: What motivated you to write 'Black Boogiemen?'

Tallis: My major motivation for writing "Black Boogiemen" was frustration.  I don't know about the rest of black America but I am fed up with our current state.  Tired of seeing us in last place at everything. Tired of watching black America wait for some savior. Tired of black America expecting the government to fix our social woes. Tired of such an exorbitant murder rate within our communities. Really tired of us perpetuating all of the negative stereotypes and basically keeping ourselves shackled. This book is a breath of fresh air. It presents a black American culture with power, honor, class, and a united culture. People need to hear about that, then maybe they will believe it possible.  

Andrea: What feedback and/or accolades have you received?

Tallis: Honestly, I only hear two things. Either, "This is the best book I've read," or "This is ONE of the best books I've read." My point, I have received nothing but amazing reviews. I guess the people really wanted to see black America under a new looking glass.

Andrea: What two suggestions would you give to young men about the importance of staying away from negative influences?

Tallis: Number one: Simply put, negative influences will choose a path for you.  You want to choose your own path.

Number two:  Negative influences will never allow you to become the great and powerful man you are meant to be. A man will never achieve his greatness following negative influences.

Andrea: Where can your book be purchased?  Tallis-piaget.com(prefered), Amazon.com, BarnesnNobles.com.

Your website and social media information: tallis-piaget.com, blackboogiemen/facebook, Blackboogiemen/twitter

Do you like poetry and erotica? Rated H (Hot) interview with Ainsley Burrows, founder of The Sweet Spot, CEO of BurrowsInk.

Ainsley Burrows is a Brooklyn based, full-time artist. He is the founder of The Sweet Spot, and CEO of BurrowsInk. Mr. Burrows studied Accounting and Economics in college, before making a drastic career change to pursue his passion.

Andrea: What was a milestone in your career?

Ainsley: I was the face of Guinness in 26 countries, during The Guinness Greatness Campaign (TV AD).

Andrea: How and why did you start writing and performing erotic poetry?  

Ainsley: I started when I was in college. I think it had to do with the challenge.  Erotic poetry, or should I say good erotic poetry, is the hardest kind of poetry to write.

Andrea: What is a day in your life like? (Is your endeavor full-time?)

Ainsley: I am a full-time artist. I do all different types of writing. I also paint. I also run maybe on of the biggest poetry companies in the world.  BurrowsInk is the company that produces The Sweet Spot. The Sweet Spot is up and running in 17 cities across the United States and Canada. So a typical day starts of with BurrowsInk business, such as phone calls, emails, ordering flyers and tickets, getting venues confirmed, booking and speaking with artists. I meet with possible sponsors, and also converse with possible vendors. I try to finish most business by about 2:00 or 3:00 PM.  When it is a day that we have a show, things are a little different.  I have to get all I have to do done while preparing for a show. It also entails travel and organizing. Luckily, I have a solid team that makes sure things are where they need to be, and people are where they need to be, when they need to be there. In the evenings I normally go out to promote if I am in NYC, or I stay home and write. I am always working on a writing project, be it a novel or a series of poems, a play or a movie script. I am always writing.

Andrea: Did anyone ever discourage you, when you made a decision to pursue something nontraditional?

Ainsley: My family was not happy with the decision. I was in a MBA program. The second semester of my first year, I had an insane car accident in which the car rolled over 5 times. After the accident, I decided to leave school. I can't really remember anyone of consequence being supportive, but inside I knew what I wanted, so I focused on being the best artist I could be.

Andrea: Who has been your biggest influence?

Ainsley: I have tons of influences. I listen to all types of music and absorb all kinds of art. I was on the road for about ten years, just traveling and performing. I used to spend at least three months of each year in Europe. During that time, I performed in a different city almost every night. I think most of those travels influenced my world view and the art I create. I go to a lot of museums because I believe the past has it lessons. I go to see live music because I think live music is one of the most honest forms of expression.  I read the poetry of all my peers; it keeps me grounded and fueled.  I fall in love every ten minutes. I can't explain that one to you, but I do.

Andrea: What is The Sweet Spot, who is your target audience, and what do you want attendees to take away from the experience? What can people expect from a Sweet Spot show?

Ainsley: The Sweet Spot is a POP Erotica event. POP Erotica is a term I coined. Our target audiences are people who are tired of the night life and who are looking for an alternative form of entertainment, people who want to go out but they don't want the whole club atmosphere , and people who want to be fully engaged. We want people to walk away thinking The Sweet Spot was one of the best experiences they have ever had. We want them to walk away thinking, "I have to tell someone." And in general that has been the reaction we get from people. Beyond the scenes of the experience, we started this event seven years ago to provide a safe place for people to express their sexuality and not be judged. The Sweet Spot is a JUDGEMENT FREE ZONE. We are looking into a different ways to get the show to as many people as we can. We are constantly expanding into new areas. We are looking at setting up shop in Europe and Africa. We have a few offers on the table. However, sometimes the timing has to be right. We are also looking at doing a TV show around the event. We have a Sweet Spot Book which should be coming out in the Spring, and we are constantly looking for ways to make the show bigger and better.

Andrea: Please briefly share about how you began writing books. What is the name of your latest one?

Ainsley: Novel writing is the next logical step from writing poetry. I have two published novels so far. I am working on my third as we speak. My latest is a POP EROTICA novel called 'Bang Bang Bang-A Summer of Sin in Brooklyn.'

   

Andrea: I heard that you'll be back in the Maryland area on November the 8th. Please share details.

Ainsley: Yes. We will be back in Baltimore on November 8, 2013 at Paparazzi.

Andrea: How can readers keep up with you online?

Ainsley: You can find me at: https://www.facebook.com/ainsley.burrows

@ainsleyburrows on Twitter  & Instagram

www.artburrows.com

www.sweetspotnation.com


Links to purchase Ainsley's books or products:


https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=C63BYBVCUBVK4


Ainsley's Toronto performance:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlufCakOy1E


The Guinness video:

http://vimeo.com/8766972

I met Ainsely earlier this year. He is an extremely talented artist. I wish him the best with his endeavors! Please note the address of Paparazzi:


407 E. SARATOGA STREET
BALTIMORE MARYLAND 21202
BALTIMORE , MD 21202 USA


You may visit www.sweetspotnation.com  for more details.

5 fab tips to write a novel in 30 days during National Novel Writing Month.

Although I have taken some time away from penning novels, I tend to keep manuscripts on hand. The hard part for me is usually revising them, not writing initial drafts. After working as a freelance ghost writer who was required to turn in finished manuscripts after authors didn't finish them,  I grew accustomed to developing a very disciplined mindset. I signed a document guaranteeing that I would deliver a manuscript by a specific date. At the time, these assignments were far more difficult than writing my own novels. They were completed for mainstream publishers who were depending on me to do whatever I said that I would.  After that, I began working as a content editor. My job was to tear a story apart, then suggest how to make it a stronger read, before it left my hands to proceed to the next editor. So, if you have the first novel writing jitters, the tips that I offer are mere suggestions to help jumpstart your 30 day mission. By no means is this list complete.

Housekeeping:
Will you be writing your novel for fun, to submit to a publisher, or to self publish later? I always ask why a person wants to write a book. For those who want to submit to a publisher, word count is an important detail. Does the publisher require a 70,000 word minimum?  Is an agent required? Things like these are important to know, while developing a plan. Genre can also play a part in the submission guideline component.

Before ferociously banging out a novel in the making, take a deep breath. Some days may only entail writing. Others may involve preparation, too.

1.Define your setting, characters and background information. Consider taking time to tend to details that could present conflicts later. Where will your story place? Who will be your antagonist and protagonist? What time period does the novel cover? From which POV will a story be told? These are examples of critical details that can strenghten or weaken a storyline. Slow down and hammer down the frame of your writing house, even if you are in a hurry. It can be extremely difficult to generate dialogue if your characters don't feel real. Your soul should know them in a familiar way. Achieving a balance of showing and telling may be easier to achieved if you feel connected to personalities of characters that you create.

2. Decide what the conflict of your fictional story may be. How will it be resolved? What event is climactic? Conflicts have resolutions. No character is all good or all bad. Encountering a problem or experience can dovetail with what territory the author covers in each chapter. Every scene should intrigue the reader. Pace yourself as the story unfolds.

3. Take time to fact check. Fiction is fiction, but an element of reality may help to keep your readers engaged. Be careful that descriptions and places align whenever they are mentioned. When writing is rushed even things like character names can be confused. Create a system to track what you say along the way. If Scottie has red hair and a lanky frame in chapter one, Scotty should not have black hair and a pot belly in chapter nine. This may sound silly, but errors like these can be common when a new novelist sits at a computer for hours.

4. Create some sort of outline, even if it is an informal one. It's often easier to know where you're going in a story if it's written down. It's nearly impossible to remember everything. Create a reference tool that you can revisit when needed.

5. Keep in mind that your goal is to get your thoughts down on paper first. You can edit the bulk of your work later. You will likely write and revise many rough drafts. 30 days is just a starting point; not the end of writing your masterpiece. Don't expect a perfectly executed story all in one shot. Overcome the fear of writing by doing it. If you're not as disciplined as you would like to be, a challenge such as this can help remedy the procrastination blues.

Good luck with your writing goals. Don't worry about writing what you think people may want to read or hear. If you're participating purely out of comittment to bask in your personal glory of fabulousness, the challenge is really all about you. I have faith that you will meet your goal.

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Read Omar Tyree's interview about writing.

Delia J. Colvin stopped by to discuss The Sibylline Trilogy (Oracles Series) and the story behind her writing life.

As the spooky Halloween air clears, Delia Colvin heats up November with a personal story about her writing life, and news about her series. We hope that you enjoy this special Friday morning interview!

Andrea: Can you briefly explain your health challenge that led to your drastic career change?

Delia: After day surgery, I was at home resting when I suffered from a massive number of  pulmonary embolisms: blood clots that moved through my heart, nearly stopping it and then spattered onto the wall of my lungs so that despite my breathing, oxygen was not getting into my body.

I didn't believe I was going to live more than a few minutes. Suddenly I realized that I was born a storyteller and my "someday I'll find the time" had run out. I vowed that if I lived, I would change that.

Still, life is busy and it was exactly one year later when I acted on it. I was driving into D.C. when an epic storyline popped into my head in a matter of seconds. Three weeks later I had completed the rough draft to my first novel. A year after that all three novels (over a thousand pages) had been written, edited and released...and I was a bestselling author! Wow!

Andrea: Many people dream of being a full-time writer, but it's not always financially feasible for them. Did your spouse immediately support your desire to bring your dream to fruition?

Delia: Timing is everything and for me the timing was extraordinary!  I was about to change positions in Air Traffic Control but was working twelve hour days. We knew there would be a brief time between the change of positions, but I wasn't there yet. So I wrote on my iPhone while walking the mile to work, while driving, while eating.

Because no one had ever read my stories, it took a tremendous amount of courage to allow my daughter, Jen, and husband, Randy, to read them.  Randy is not a fiction reader and I didn't expect that he would like it. It was a very rough draft. But within a few pages, he leaned forward and I could tell he was engaged. I saw every turn of events lit in his eyes.

After reading Chapter Five he said, "Forget Air Traffic Control! You were born to write!" Since then I've been a full-time novelist. It's not always been easy, but it has been a beautiful life.

Andrea: How long have you been writing, how many published  novels have you written, and have you received any awards or accomplished personal milestones since you began?

 Delia: I've been writing all my life. I began telling stories at three years of age and I knew that was my future. But I allowed "practical matters" to dominate my life.

 With writing, marketing and all of the travel that I do, I haven't yet taken the time to enter the books in contests. Still they've won several minor awards.

 There have been, however, several major moments for me: Since last Christmas (when most Indies shut down their advertising due to massive competition), Book One and Book Two became Amazon bestsellers and dominated the lists. They've remained on those lists almost every month since.

 Also, The Last Oracle, Book Three was released in September and became not only a bestseller, but one of the rare selections for Amazon's "Hot New Releases"! To top that off, it is also ranked the #1 best rated bestseller (with Book Two coming in #2 in some genres).

 But for me the most rewarding acknowledgment was the emails and letters I received after release of Book Three asking me to continue the series. One reviewer wrote that they cried for thirty minutes after reading the last pages of Book Three, because they weren't ready to leave the world created in the novels. That was a wow!

 Since then I've decided to continue the series and I'm writing Book Four now.

Andrea: I read that you were initially not a big lover of Greek mythology? If that is correct, has it influenced your highly respected writing in any way now?

 Delia: I never decided to write Greek mythology and I'm not a fan as it rarely has a satisfying ending. Still it is an integral part of the storyline and I've enjoyed the research. For me I use the research for historical perspective on the story.

 Andrea: How did you come up with the concept of  The Sibylline Trilogy (Oracles Series)? For readers who are not familiar with the trilogy yet, can you briefly explain what it is about, and if the meaning of the name is symbolic?

 Delia: The novel takes place in modern day Manhattan and Italy and has a strong romantic element, like Outlander. The concept is that the main characters are oracles (sayers) created by the Greek god Apollo. A female oracle was often called a sibyl and sometimes a sibylline oracle (which is also the name of a book of prophesies).

 The oracles were given immortality. But for some reason the main character, Cassandra/Valeria isn't. Her soul mate, Alex, is cursed with visions of her various deaths, as she reincarnates only to die by her twenty-seventh birthday. This time Alex is determined to change all of that with the help of the small family of remaining oracles.

 Andrea: What genre do you consider your trilogy?

 Delia: The challenge with genre is to find your readers and present it to them. I originally called it Fantasy. But because there's such a strong romantic thread in the series, I've shifted it to Romance sub-genres. I've been calling it Paranormal and Mythology. Recently the former chief editor from Harper Collins called it "Smart Women's Fiction". However, I do have many men that also read my books.

 Andrea: You did your homework on the publishing industry, turned down an attractive book deal, but still managed to become a best-selling author. Do you intend to keep self publishing? If so, what two pointers would you give an aspiring writer about the publishing business?


Delia: The world of publishing is changing at a very rapid pace. I've never been adverse to going the traditional route. But as a new author I felt the need to have a successful track-record of sales.


My two pointers would be to 1) Put out a professional product! Write the very best book you can write and then get professionals to help take it to the next level. 2) Take a marketing course from a legitimate source. My recommendation is the inexpensive, but phenomenal courses offered by Melissa Foster and Fostering Success.

 Andrea: I also read that you wanted readers to experience historically accurate scenes in your novels.  C. Kerenyi, a researcher on ancient Greece, seemed to be a great resource for you. How important is detailed research in your writing regiment?

 Delia: You know, it's quite easy to say, "It's fiction. It doesn't require accuracy." But for me I wanted accuracy and had many arguments with myself when I had difficulty resolving questions. Mr. Kerenyi's books are quite brilliant and they sit in hard copy next to my thesaurus and dictionaries.

 Andrea: Do you favor happy endings in your stories, and do both men and women read your work?


Delia: I do prefer a happy ending--or at least a satisfying ending. I want readers to feel an arc of emotion and come away feeling good.


As far as readers, most of my marketing is to women. But a surprising number of men seem to enjoy the books.


Andrea: As a writer, what would you say is the most important part of executing emotion in your storylines?

Changing emotions is vital to a story. I want readers to feel a full range of emotions throughout the books and to feel a continuous thread of tension. As far as executing those emotions in a story, I seem to have an internal meter that tells me, "Oh something needs to happen here!"  But in the end, if I don't feel the emotion, I re-write it until I do.


Andrea: I write because_______. It makes me feel ________!

Delia: I write because that is who I am. It makes me feel like alive! (note: in fact, my husband will attest that I am not a very pleasant person when I haven't written for a few days.)


Delia's website: www.deliacolvin.com

Her Amazon link: bit.ly/Sibylline

Contact Delia at DeliaJColvin@gmail.com.

Join Delia's Goodreads discussion group: bit.ly/DeliaColvin


It was a pleasure learning more about Delia. I wish her continued success with her writing endeavors. 




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Preview of the book, 'Hatching Twitter,' by NYT columnist Nick Bilton. Release date, Nov. 5th.

My Friday book buzz report is about 'Hatching Twitter: A True Story of Money, Power, Friendship, and Betrayal.'

Personally, I was hesitant to join Twitter. My mind was stuck on stories referencing digital beef and saucy members. I got over it and took my chances. After I did, usage of Twitter became a major part of my goal to network and promote my #book #loving #habit. Something interesting crept into my timeline. I'm probably late telling you this, but an author, technology writer and columnist for the New York Times will be sharing the Twitter story with eager tweeting fans. Shall we take a look at one of his tweets?

"Nick Bilton (@nickbilton) tweeted at 5:06 PM on Thu, Oct 24, 2013:
My book "Hatching Twitter," comes out Nov. 5. Twitter is expected to go public on Nov. 6. You win some, and then you really win some. (https://twitter.com/nickbilton/status/393483691345076224)"

Either Mr. Bilton had a pretty good hunch about the project, or...well never mind. To add excitement to the fray, according to one source, Hollywood is  discussing the movie potential of his forthcoming book. http://techcrunch.com/2013/10/25/lots-of-interest-in-the-hollywood-interest-in-making-biltons-twitter-book-a-movie/

If you're a bookworm who is interested in knowing more, a preview awaits your hungry eyes. http://mobile.nytimes.com/2013/10/13/magazine/all-is-fair-in-love-and-twitter.html. If you would like a crash course on Nick Bilton, enjoy a visit to his website by clicking here!

Did Mr. Bilton tell all? We'll have to wait a little longer to get full details, but not too much.

Bestselling author Brenda L. Thomas's Laying Down My Burdens will become a movie. Keeping it real Tuesday interview to wrap up Domestic Violence Month at The Nook.

Brenda L. Thomas currently resides in Philadelphia, PA. She is an Executive and Personal Assistant, author, and now also an Executive Producer of her movie. Her memoir, Laying Down My Burdens, was published in October of 2007. Brenda is rather modest. She has also been a celebrity personal assistant and has been a guest on various well known TV programs. Enjoy her Tuesday Nook stop!


Andrea: I noticed that you've been heavily promoting Laying Down My Burdens. What it is about, and is it non-ficition? Is there a lesson attached to the story?

Brenda: It’s a non-fiction memoir based on a 15 year period of my life wherein I was a victim of domestic violence and drug addiction. My ex-husband wouldn’t allow me to write. However, once I was free from that marriage, I went onto write several Essence bestselling novels and now, my personal story, Laying Down My Burdens.

Andrea: Were you concerned about what people would think who read it?

Brenda: The courage came from wanting my granddaughters to know that they didn’t have to fall victim and suffer like I did.

Andrea: What would you say who people who criticize domestic violence victims for taking "too long" to leave an abuser? Do you feel that mental and physical abuse equally damaging?

Brenda: People have interesting takes on DV and I believe it’s because of their own experiences. We’ve all been exposed, whether as a perpetrator, victim or witness and hence that’s were our opinions grow from. And yes all of its equally as damaging and usually comes as a package deal. Too often women try to identify out by saying, “Well it wasn’t that bad for me.”

 Andrea: Were people shocked that a high profile personal assistant and successful author had been abused?

Brenda: Very shocked, but the funny thing was everyone always thought my novels were my story, especially Sasha, in Threesome and Fourplay. Then when I released 'Burdens,' people didn’t want to believe it was me. Some people actually don’t.

 Andrea: From where did you draw your strength, when you were in an abusive relationship? How did you find courage to leave?


Brenda: My strength came from my family and friends, always telling me I didn’t have to live like that. But I had to believe it for myself. My parents always prayed that I’d live a better life and through their faith and my own I was able to take the baby steps to leave. In the end I was tired of seeing my children suffer.

When people ask where did I get the courage, my response is that I never knew I had courage. I just wrote a story I needed to tell.

Andrea: Did you choose to self-publish?

Brenda: Yes, after being with Simon and Schuster, I knew that for this book I had to have full control.

Andrea: Can you share anything about your upcoming movie, how readers can stay up-to-date, and how and when it will be produced?

Brenda: The movie will go into production in 2014. We’ve released the teaser on You Tube and will preview the trailer on Nov. 9th in Philly. The best way to stay up to date is www.brendalthomas.net or email me at brendalthomas@comcast.net.  I’m also linked to all social media sites.

The You Tube teaser:

Brenda: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YlYFCFSA9Vk

Andrea: Purchase information for your book:

Brenda:

http://www.amazon.com/Laying-Down-Burdens-Brenda-Thomas/dp/0979762200/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1382377287&sr=8-1&keywords=laying+down+my+burdens

The ebook version will be available in 2 weeks, or if they’d like it personally autographed, they can email me at brendalthomas@comcast.net. We can do it through PayPal and I’ll mail them a copy.



Additional information: 
If you are located in PA, Brenda will be having a screening of the movie  trailer. Attendees can also meet the cast and crew. RSVP is required by November 4rth.



Saturday * 9th * November * 2013

7:00 p.m.

Chickie's & Pete's

4010 Robbins Ave

Philadelphia, PA 19135

  

I'M STILL HERE

Kelly Hitchcock's Portrait of Woman in Ink: A Tattoo Storybook neatly fuses womanhood, life's imperfections, stereotypes, and tattoos. The author's exploration of life's difficulties invites thoughts of resilience, strength and empathy. The narration makes 12 women who have or want tattoos feel human. As we reflect on their short stories, assumptions are exchanged for relatable experiences. The book becomes more about making the best of enduring life's curves balls that can interrupt normalcy, and less about the 'novelty' of tattoos. Snippets of 12 lives mesh with Women's Studies. What women may endure is thoughtfully explored in each portrait. Ms. Hitchcock's writing is just enough to make a reader wonder what will come next for women who haven't had easy lives.

The author effectively shows us the meaning behind each tattoo, although telling each story in first person may have reinforced the connection between protagonists and readers, or the author may have found a way to revisit her interesting premise at the end. Final thoughts coming from her may have added to the cohesiveness of the book. I wondered what inspired the story, were the portraits based on real people, and if this storybook would be the end of the subject. Another option would've been to feature less stories, capturing several in a first installment. This would allow inclusion of more emotion and details. On the other hand, I would not have been curious if the author hadn't skillfully turned a storybook into framework for a storyline.

Ms. Hitchcock manages to make tattoos interesting to those who may already embrace them, and also to those who may never have given the meaning of them a second thought. This author has broad storytelling potential that could easily be used to explore mostly any aspect of Americana. Kelly Hitchcock's Portrait of Woman in Ink: A Tattoo Storybook is original and thought-provoking. I look forward to  future projects.


About the Author: http://kellyhitchcock.com

Amplify your reach with book bloggers. An interview & book review of The Author's Guide To Working With Book Bloggers..

 
Click here to find my book review.

Here is an excerpt from the interview & a synopsis of the book:


The Author’s Guide to Working with Book Bloggers

Do you feel out of your comfort zone when dealing with book bloggers? They are the New Gatekeepers to book publishing success – but how can you tap into that source of free promotions by putting your best foot forward?

The Author’s Guide to Working with Book Bloggers combines the advice of 215 blogging professionals collected in a survey covering all aspects of communication between authors and Review Blogs. Whether you are a new author, or have many titles under your belt, let us demystify the promotion of your book on a book blog.

You’ll learn about whom and where book bloggers are, and the following:

The Query,

The Review,

The Giveaway,

The Author Interview,

The Guest Post,

The Book Blurb Excerpt and Cover Reveals and more!

Andrea: Please share details about The Blogger List, such as the number of members, average of monthly visitors, when it was started, etc.

Barb: The Book Blogger List was started in late January of this year. Word got about quickly, and continues to spread.  Book bloggers continue to sign up to the site on a daily basis. I now have well over 600 Book Bloggers listed. I wanted a site that sorts or arranges bloggers by genre. (When authors are looking for someone to promote their book, they look for bloggers who like to read what they write.) That’s what the Book Blogger List does. The site can be searched for a specific blogger, but all the listings are laid out categorized by genre.

Today it has 647 listings, but I also know that I have 9 queries in my inbox that need to be posted. The number will continue to increase!

The site has averaged between 8000 and 9000 hits per month since it’s inception with the number of daily hits varying widely. The lowest number of hits each day is usually about 150 with the highest daily figure being well over 1000. The average time spent on the site is 5:30, which shows that people are looking around while they are there. Our traffic comes from everywhere with US, UK and Canada sending us the majority of the traffic. Almost every country represented to some extent. Almost half of the traffic comes from search traffic, with the major search criteria being the word “blog” or “review” + a genre.

 Andrea: Wow! What inspired you to found The Blogger List and also write your book?

Barb: I work with authors on a daily basis. I tutor Wordpress and I help them put together their Author Platform. I’m the behind the scenes person. I don’t consider myself a writer, but a voracious reader. I find it really rewarding to help an author understand how all the various parts and pieces go together to form a functioning Author Platform.

When trying to teach authors how to use book bloggers as a source of promotion, I was frustrated with the existing databases of book bloggers. Finally, after many months of threatening, I started my own. I really didn’t expect to list more than 50 or so bloggers.

The number of book bloggers that have signed up and the number of hits are amazing to me! I am humbled by the attention my little site is getting.

The ideas for the book began before the site. I got into a discussion one day with a bunch of book bloggers on Twitter about the fact that authors needed some guidance to work with book bloggers. I was curious as to whether just experienced book bloggers were seeing what we were seeing, or if it was more widespread than that. I created a survey, posted it on my blog, and advertised it on Facebook and Twitter. I had 215 responses! Amazing! Again, I was thinking I would be lucky to hear from 50 bloggers. The information that I gathered from that survey as well a follow-up survey were pearls of wisdom. I realized that what I assumed would be an academic survey of book bloggers simply had to be turned into a book so that I could include everyone’s information.

I had a wonderful editor help me organize the information into chapters, and then a lot of help along the way. I had the participants of the survey serve as proofreaders and beta readers.

Are you a fan of scary books & chocolate? Author Shonda Brock has a contest in time for Halloween.

                 http://www.shondabrock.com/contest/4574451482

Mike Tyson's Undisputed Truth. Memoir scheduled for release Nov. 12th.

 I didn't see this one coming, but like I said yesterday, it's memoir season. We will likely see a surge in all types of life stories that will be published about a range of well-known figures, controversial or not, mistakes included. I think that pop culture is on the rise, too. At one point, the most popular memoirs seemed to primarily be about politicians. While some may be in the mix, I think more Americans are beginning to grow weary from talk about the economy, and which party is right or wrong. Career books, how to reads, and page turners to help stressed people escape may be on the upswing, too. Spoiler: An associate editor informed me that romance books are selling well, in an interview for my ezine, last December. 

Anyway, here is the publisher's description of Undisputed Truth:

A bare-knuckled, tell-all memoir from Mike Tyson, the onetime heavyweight champion of the world—and a legend both in and out of the ring.

Philosopher, Broadway headliner, fighter, felon—Mike Tyson has defied stereotypes, expectations, and a lot of conventional wisdom during his three decades in the public eye. Bullied as a boy in the toughest, poorest neighborhood in Brooklyn, Tyson grew up to become one of the most thrilling and ferocious boxers of all time—and the youngest heavyweight champion ever. But his brilliance in the ring was often compromised by reckless behavior. Years of hard partying, violent fights, and criminal proceedings took their toll: by 2003, Tyson had hit rock bottom, a convicted felon, completely broke, the punch line to a thousand bad late-night jokes. Yet he fought his way back; the man who once admitted being addicted “to everything” regained his success, his dignity, and the love of his family. With a triumphant one-man stage show, his unforgettable performances in theHangover films, and his newfound happiness and stability as a father and husband, Tyson’s story is an inspiring American original.
Brutally honest, raw, and often hilarious, Tyson chronicles his tumultuous highs and lows in the same sincere, straightforward manner we have come to expect from this legendary athlete. A singular journey from Brooklyn’s ghettos to worldwide fame to notoriety, and, finally, to a tranquil wisdom, Undisputed Truth is not only a great sports memoir but an autobiography for the ages.

The Book Nook's Water Cooler Comments:

 "Iron Mike" has been working as a boxing promoter http://www.ironmikeproductions.com/ and acting
http://entertainment.time.com/2012/12/05/mike-tysons-one-man-show-national-tour-death-threats-stage-diving/.

 I wasn't aware that his infant daughter died in a tragic accident in 2009 http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5jGNV3mE8Iph_ePbtreCubEAo0LTg.

The video clip of Oprah's interview: http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Mike-Tyson-Talks-About-the-Death-of-His-Daughter-Video.

Does America crave gossip more than content? What's on our bookshelves? Rielle Hunter's newly released ebook.

 Does the average American reader like reading tell-all books and contraversial memoirs? You decide.

On October 15th, the Amazon sales rank of What Really Happened was 4, 125. If you don't know how that works, the lower the number, the higher the rank. My primary goal is to share news, recent releases, and snippets of publishing industry topics, so my personal opinions aren't the focus. If you're not familiar with the story, I feel compelled to only repeat that the combination of a political scandal, a now deceased wife's cancer diagnosis, and an innocent child who was concieved by a mistress makes for an explosive book cocktail. Now, we're here:

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/4100599?utm_hp_ref=tw

"Washington Post (@washingtonpost) tweeted at 11:49 AM on Tue, Oct 15, 2013: Rielle Hunter: "My publisher came up with the idea of me going through my Book and annotating all of my regrets" http://t.co/joN3h3NNsP (https://twitter.com/washingtonpost/status/390142354570899456)"

Despite the comments that were posted on Amazon, and remarks about her  apology that are flying around on Twitter, it's obvious that some readers are indeed buying and downloading the revised book.


http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw
/d/B00FAE1DCA/ref=redir_mdp_mobile

As an author myself, I find this occurence to be rather interesting. I know what it's like to be traditionally and self-published. To get experience, I wasn't able to publish my heart's true desire. Some other very talented writers are finding themselves without book deals. Many of them have a respectable track record, but sometimes your most poignant book may land in the dreaded slush pile. I've heard people remark that literary fiction should make a more robust return, but will a large number of readers buy it enough to appease publishers, and help them to recoup their return on investments? Many writers struggle with this question and problem. When I consider the onslaught of tell-all books that shot to the top of book lists, my guess is that curiosity must inspire sales. When it comes to publishing, inspiring stories may sell intermittently, but gossip and/or scandals seem to fly off of the shelves. Also, celebrity books typically sell better, when it comes to inspirational titles or memoirs. Celebrities have built in fan bases. True fans will usually want to support their endeavors. That's simply a perk of being well known. When an author is associated with a well known figure, the draw is sharing private, unknown information about someone known, in a behind the scenes manner.

As of 7:25 AM, the Amazon rank is 1, _96. (Can you guess the missing number?) Rielle's book is selling well at the moment. The rank is still improving, although no one can predict how long the climb will last. In today's time, numbers count. No matter what people say about the book's content, the primary goal is being achieved, at least for the moment.  When a project is deemed highly successful, the author's marketplace worth increases, too. If a book becomes a New York Times best-selling book, business and financial opportunities usually multiply.

Books and music possess common strands of artistic responsibility. I was in a forum and heard MC Lyte remark that a sale is a vote for an artist. Maybe the publishing model is headed in the same direction. Hence, the boom of self published books and indie authors. The stigma of self publishing is leaving, but I'm not sure it's happening fast enough. That's a topic for another day.

Fabulous readers of the day! The Divas of the Serengeti Book Club stop by The Nook!

                       The Divas of the Serengeti Book Club 

                        President: Tasha Smith


I asked Tasha some questions about The Divas. Enjoy learning more about these fabulous readers.

The Divas of the Serengeti Book Club (Nashville Chapter) was founded in late 2011. Our first official meeting was held October, 2012.  We do have a second chapter in Maryland.  We have 10 divas at the present time in our Nashville Chapter, but we are always looking for new members that will fit well with the divas.

What does the book club's name mean? The name came from our obsession with the Serengeti Desert.  We all choose an animal name and chose an adjective that describes us. For example, I am Elite Lioness.

We meet once a month either at the host's home or a restaurant. We discuss the monthly books. Discussion questions may be listed in the book, or I email the author directly and ask for 5 -10 questions to discuss.  We also have trivia questions on the book's content. Based on the questions, we give away prizes, such as books, trinkets or jewelry.

The Maryland chapter has about 8 to 10 members. They were established earlier this year with their first meeting taking place in July, 2013. The president of that chapter is my sister, Kenya.

I think our favorite book is "Addicted" by Zane.  We don't have a particular favorite genre, because we read everything from paranormal to urban and street fiction with romance mixed in. At the present time our monthly read (November) is "Lyon on a Leash" by Erosa Knowles.  We are also reading  "Bad Habits" by Sienna Mynx, "The Masseause" by Violette Dubrinsky,  "47" by Walter Mosely, "A Madaris Bride for Christmas" by Brenda Jackson, "Fly Betty" by Treasure Blue, "Beyond the Breaking Point" by Zena Wynn and a host of other books.


We connect with authors by attending conferences that are within a few hours of Nashville.

The Divas can be reached via Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/divasoftheserengetibookclub?fref=ts and Twitter at @DivasSerengeti.  We can also be reached by email at divasoftheserengeti@hotmail.com.


As an author, I truly appreciate how supportive book clubs are. Tasha Smith, I want to personally thank you and The Divas for helping to keep the literary arts alive. 

How to really enjoy a bit of wine. Guest post featuring www.ABitOfWine.com & The Divas of the Serengeti Book Club.

How To Really Enjoy...

Sure, this a book blog. However, there are many factors that may influence how much a reader may enjoy a book. Enjoyment could be influenced by setting, ambiance or socialization. For some individuals, sharing viewpoints of a book consists of making phone calls, posting to a discussion board, or attending in-person meetings. Getting together is probably the most personal option. Time shared amongst friends, or fellow book lovers, before or after a book club discussion, often involves eating good food, and sipping on a nice glass of wine. For these reasons, I joined forces with two fabulous experts to sort out questions regarding how to enjoy wine and book club meetings a little better. In essence, A Bit Of Wine offers a one stop shopping experience.

Katie Childers is the owner of A Bit Of Wine (www.abitofwine.com). The Divas of the Serengeti Book Club have chapters that are located in Nashville, Tennessee and Maryland. Although I could recieve a discount for posting information about A Bit Of Wine, my review of the website is no less valid. It's honestly a website that I regard as fun to click around, while imagining how I could become a more creative entertainer.

I hope that you--someone who may enjoy a bit of wine and a good book--will visit the website. To make this post as fun and informative as I possibly could, I decided to list my top five issues that some of my customers struggle with. Ironically, I have worked part-time, representing various wine brands, for the last 4 years, so this post resonates exponentially for me. Moody corks, ambiance, searching for cocktail recipes, questions regarding what to pair with a wine selection, and wine recommendation requests are some popular topics that come to mind, when I consider my collective work experiences. I have dealt with a stubborn wine cork, while customers waited for me to remove one from an unopened bottle. Even last week, someone I know broke the cork while trying to remove one at home. Today, I would like to share 5 fabulous selections from ABitOfWine.com. Whenever you enjoy your next glass of wine, maybe you will reflect on our visit together online.


5 Hot Picks


1.My first hot pick from the website is a rechargeable, electric helper (http://abitofwine.com/item_1183/Stainless-Steel-Electric-Push-Button-Corkscrew.htm). If you don't want to fight with a stubborn cork, you don't have to suffer. Ruined clothes, or a ruined bottle of wine is frustrating, but when you let this handy machine do the hard work for you, there's no reason to get frustrated, embarrassed or risk hurting your arm.  Problem solved. Plus, it looks cool.

2. At the moment, rain in certain regions of the country may limit appreciation for this next hot pick, but when you're headed out to enjoy a sunny vacation, you're planning to picnic in the park, or if you want to surprise your honey with a romantic touch during an outdoor adventure, consider investing in a High Stakes Picnic Table that's crafted from food safe bamboo (http://abitofwine.com/m/item_1293/High-Stakes-Picnic-Table.htm). This nifty, portable gadget holds 2 wine glasses and small snacks. After sticking it in the ground, your company will most likely be tempted to compliment you for thinking of nearly everything. I saw this and gave it the thumbs up right away, since I love romance and the outdoors. There's an option that's made like a serving tray. That one would also work well inside or outside. Cute, right?

3. Moving right along, the rest of the items mesh well with entertaining at home, or during the upcoming holiday seasons. A Bit Of Wine offers a solution to any hostess or host who openly admits that he or she could use an on-call bartender's assistance. Wine Stuff's Bar Master  (http://abitofwine.com/m/item_953/The-Wine-Stuff-Bar-Master.htm) is designed to find any cocktail recipe by name, type of spirit, or even by the type of serving glass used. It also is decribed as being able to "find any cocktail recipe, along with tips, tricks, terms, measurements, and even a collection of drinking games. Also The Bar Master shows you how to calculate blood-alcohol levels. The database contains over 500 drink recipes which include measurements and techniques to help you get the most out of your mixing."

4. This next issue is a very common one. What do you drink with what you eat? There's a book listed on A Bit Of Wine's website that may serve as a handy reference tool. It should also help a hostess or host plan the best wine to serve at party, or even help to determine party friendly wine food. It also includes pairing recommendations beyond wine, although learning more about how to pair wine with a meal or hors d'oeuvres can turn a simple gathering into an extremely memorable affair. Sometimes, finishing touches and preparation can be worthwhile extra steps. Do you agree?

http://abitofwine.com/m/item_1278/What-To-Drink-With-What-To-Eat.htm

5. Many customers that I've encountered asked for a wine recommendation  on the way to a party or gathering. Giving one may sound simple, but it all depends on the hostess' tastes, as well as those also attending. Some may feel Moscato is too sweet. Some may feel that red wine is too heavy. Others may deem either of them to be just right. ABitOfWine.com offers another option. You may also purchase a gift certificate, when you're not sure what kind of wine to buy for a wine lover. The website offers everything from charms to wine refrigerators. The options are endless and will fit mostly any budget. If you're like me, you also browse websites from a mobile device. ABitOfWine.com is also mobile friendly, if you're constantly on the go.


Bonus pick:

Football season is now upon us. As we consider decorating for football parties and gatherings, we can remember to accommodate everyone's tastes. ABitOfWine.com can help you welcome football lovers into your space with novelty items like a touchdown pro cutting board. Mostly anyone can make entertaining with wine fun! This is one simple example.

http://abitofwine.com/item_114/Touchdown-Pro-Cutting-Board.htm

How can book clubs enjoy a bit of wine better?


The Divas of the Serengeti Book Club's Nashville Chapter meets once a month, either at the host's home or at a restaurant, to discuss books.

"Our meetings are always social. We eat, drink wine, discuss life, family, current events and always promote and support any business ventures the Divas may have going on. We also celebrate birthdays for that month, " Tasha Smith, President of Divas of the Serengeti Book Club explained.

With those tidbits in mind, I shared Ms. Smith's top two questions with Katie.

 Tasha asked," What is the best wine to serve at parties?" and "What is the best wine to drink with chicken or red meat?"

Katie replied, "Great questions. For parties, I play it safe with Chardonnay for my white selection and a medium bodied Cabernet Sauvignon for my red selection. These will appeal to the largest selection of people. Both pair well with cheese hors d'oevres or light canapes if you are not serving a full meal. If you are hosting wine parties, grab a fun selection of wine charms to keep everyone's glasses clearly marked and use our Host CHILL Aerators to keep the bottles of white wine cool while they sit on the counter.

For chicken and red meat, the standard rule of thumb is chicken (or white meat) pair with white wine. Red meats pair with red wines. Of course this is not a required rule. I usually base my pairing based on the seasonings and flavors of the meal. I like a glass of Pinot Noir with sushi or a Reisling with steak. Its very subjective, so I always say to drink what you like regardless what you are eating. If you like it, it's good.

News and Special Offers

10% of all wine gift sales will be donated to Susan G. Komen North Carolina, during the month of October.

 For U.S. readers, A Bit Of Wine will offer free shipping for orders over $49, until the end of October. Remember the code "FREESHIPFALL," if you decide to place an order. Also keep in mind that  5% off purchases are given for newsletter sign-ups, although the discount cannot be combined with other offers.

I would also like to mention that ABitOfWine.com is close to wrapping up their 500 fan giveaway on their blog, http://bitofwine.blogspot.com.

Keep in touch through their Facebook page facebook.com/abitofwine or Twitter (twitter.com/abitofwine).

I hope that you learned a little more about wine, and enjoyed reading about a very nifty place to buy any accessory that you could need for enjoying your bit of wine. I would like to express special thanks to the lovely ladies of  The Divas of the Serengeti Book Club. If you want to connect with them on Facebook, you may locate them at www.facebook.com/divasoftheserengetibookclub,or via Twitter at @DivasSerengeti.


Andrea

Founder, The Reader's and Author's Nook
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A poem for Domestic Violence Awareness Month. 4 AM freestyle, unedited.

SILENT PAIN

This is my life

Not quite the one I signed up for

In darkness I weep

with hands folded across my trembling lips

I live on a lonely shore

with no boat

no oar

no coat

no sustenance

and no strength to shout loudly

enough to summons help

from someone sane.

It's just us two, here in a desolate place.

You bloodied the warm, half moons you once loved to kiss

for hours on end

We ditched our friends to make love in the rain

and sing off key under summer skies.

Why has my loved one changed?

No matter how many times I question thee,

I don't receive a reply.

Now you bind me in heavy chains

and shackle me

like

I was never human.

How could you do this?

I sigh. Hopeless. Defeated. Down deep I ache for logic to explain.

You never told me what inspired you to violate our bond

and make me feel unsafe

broken

and 

worn.

I waited for years.

You still wouldn't tell me,

except with your heavy, clenched fists.

Hitting me like this became your daily, sick fix;

a habit you were unwilling to break.

You furrow your brow

as you slam blows into my tender skin

until you grew tired of smacking me around

after torturing every inch of my flesh.

But baby...I love you, I need you. I want us back. Can you fix this tilted dream and make it straight?

I can't admit that
but
instead
I
corageously yell, "Stop this!"

You backhand me as if you don't even care

so

I close my eyes

inhaling your cruel stench.

And it stinks

as

large drops of blood trickle

onto my aching hands.

Damn. You did it again.

I ache and hurt all over. All over. Forever, maybe.

Baby, this ain't no maybe situation....

We have an ugly life;

that's all that's left of us

despite

the wedding ring

that you slid on my finger

You beat me black and blue

You scream hateful words until

my reason quakes

You make me feel like a small stone stuck

at the bottom of a valley,

yet you are a mighty mountain

showing the world your strength

and prominence

A hot tear scorches my chilly skin

but I'll be all right; staying in your life

was my quiet, silent sin that no one else knows.

In public we appear to be iron strong

united forever

but those thousands of blinded eyes are clueless.

No one realizes that you do this to me.

You taught me to be an expert liar.

I should've risen to my feet

turned the doorknob behind me

and never wasted my breath on you again--

not even to say goodbye

When you raised your hand to hit me that final time

you erased the years of goodness you gave me

You took my paradise and made it morph

into a twelfth rung of hell

until my cup runneth over.

oh well

I didn't leave. I let you pull me back with your vicious rope of syrupy lies and put downs.

After you promised it would never happen again

You ripped truth from my belly and used your hands to tear me down;

outside

inside

forever...feverishly

I drop my head in shame

wishing that someone or something good  would dull this sharp pain

Long after my bruises heal

and my swollen lip recovers

I am damaged by a lover with poison hands and a sick mind

Your last blow knocks me from my feet
The world is quiet

still
and

blank.

I silently pray to God, "Please take away this pain. When I awaken, I promise to leave...this time."

My heart beat slows.

Then it stopped and ticked a final time. My life was done. Wasted. Over. But there was no do over.

Hurried feet left the murder scene.

Why didn't I leave cowardly you

before you left me

black and blue

in silent pain?

I was always stronger than what I knew. You were afraid that I would shine and light up the world without you. And that, my love, was my only sin.

Authored by Andrea Blackstone
Oct. 11/13

It takes courage to leave an abusive relationship, but it can be done. Male or female, no one should feel ashamed for needing or getting help. It may be a life saving step. God bless and protect us all. Much love to all domestic violence survivors.

Toni Braxton's memoir is coming May 20. An update and description has arrived.

Hello, Book Lovers. Happy Friday!

Toni Braxton received lots of blog love on the first post, so I decided to update it. The description of "Unbreak My Heart" is below. It's now available for pre-order. You may also take advantage of Amazon's discount. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0062293281

Release date: May 20, 2014

Product Description

In this heartfelt memoir, six-time Grammy Award-winning artist and star of WE TV’s reality hitBraxton Family Values, Toni Braxton writes about her personal life decisions and their impact on her health, family and career.

While Braxton appears to be living a gilded life—selling 60 million records, appearing in sold-out Las Vegas performances and hit shows like Dancing with the Stars, and starring in her own reality series—hers is in fact a tumultuous story, a tale of triumph over a life filled with obstacles, including two bankruptcy filings. The mother of an autistic child, Braxton long feared that her son’s condition might be karmic retribution for earlier life choices, some of which will shock fans. But when heart ailments began plaguing her at the age of 41 and she was diagnosed with Lupus, Braxton knew she had to move beyond the self-recrimination and take charge of her own healing.  Intensely honest and deeply inspirational, Unbreak My Heart is the never-before-told story of the measures Braxton took to make herself and her family whole again.


Did you miss the first post?

Many flavors of celebrity books are cooking in the literary oven. Toni Braxton's new title is expected to be released on 4/1/14, under a division of HarperCollins called It Books. The publisher's It Books imprint was reportedly unveiled in 2009. It has been described as "a division focusing on pop culture, which includes entertainment, music, fashion, design, and sports."

Ms. Braxton's memoir will likely add spice to the hit show, Braxton Family Values, that is aired on We tv. Stay tuned for what's between the pages of "Unbreak My Heart." I predict that curiosity will build as the release date approaches, and snippets will drift into the bookish atmosphere at the perfect moment. Right now, public relations chatter has been rather quiet about this one. No matter what rumors claim, Toni Braxton always ends up coming out on top. I expect no different with her book.

Do you love the Braxtons as much as I do? Click here to read my interview with Traci.